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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
National Competition on Worries!
(National Competition on Worries)
We will introduce today's guests.
This girl group overflows with refreshing charms.
Please welcome Eun Ji and Bo Mi.
(Eun Ji and Bo Mi from Apink)
- 1, 2, 3. - 1, 2, 3.
- Hello, we are Apink. - We are Apink.
Please welcome the handsome comedian, Heo Kyung Hwan.
Hello.
Hello, I am a comedian.
We always say hi while sitting down.
- But Apink got up to say hi, - It's because of them.
- and Kyung Hwan got up too. - Right.
- What will Jae Jung do? - I don't like getting up.
He's thinking hard about what to do.
Let's see what he will do.
He's the singer with a charming baritone voice.
- I'm excited. - Please welcome Parc Jae Jung.
- Parc Jae Jung. - Hello.
(He moves like a broken machine.)
- What did you do? - We are happy to see everyone.
By the way, there's some strange feeling in the air.
(Everyone is excited.)
Our host Tae Joon...
and Bo Mi used to be a couple in a show.
- Right. - Has it been a long time since you met?
Or have you been seeing each other in private?
We were called Tae-Bom Couple.
- Okay. - It's my first time seeing her since then.
- It's been so long. - Say hello.
- Right. - Say hello to each other.
Shake her hand.
(It's been a long time.)
Her hand is really small and cute.
Have you missed each other...
after the show?
- My fans hold up banners that say "Tae-Bom". - Yes.
- Those reminded me of him. - Did they?
Was there a time when you actually felt something?
- Many times. - Even though it was just a show.
- Yes. - Tell us one each.
- When did that happen? - When was it?
- She's cooked octopus stir-fry for me. - Stir-fry.
I kept craving it.
I said it many times even during the show.
Does every octopus stir-fry make your heart race?
Yes. It reminds me of Bo Mi's octopus stir-fry.
You fell for her food. My food will make you collapse.
(Do you want to come over and eat ramyeon?)
The guys told me I should never go to your place.
You will eat something good but get very humiliated.
(He'll suffer a big loss in going after a small gain.)
- That's life. - Honestly,
you should've gotten Na Mi to come too.
He wants Na Mi.
- He misses Na Mi. - He misses Na Mi.
(Na Mi's his girl.)
Now you don't get to see her regularly.
- Right. - Do you sometimes miss her?
I miss seeing Na Mi cook.
- What? - Tae Joon mentioned it too.
- Right. - Whenever she cooked,
she was turned back, and she looked beautiful that way.
I love seeing her back and smelling doenjang jjigae.
I used to think like this.
If I can live my life twice, I'd want to live with her.
But that's impossible.
- You only live once. - I only live once.
You'd live with her once if you can live twice.
Jae Jung, it's your first visit here.
- Hello. - Is there anything...
special about you?
I can stretch my skin well.
- My skin is stretchy. - It stretches.
- Your skin? - Yes.
- Your face? - My jaw skin, for example.
- Will it stretch? - Right.
It stretched a lot.
- Goodness. - No way.
- How about this side? - That's fascinating.
(That's really fascinating.)
We have three stories again today.
Let's see what they are. Show us the keywords please.
(The keywords are revealed.)
"Please, Boss".
- "Biased Love". - "My Extreme Sister".
This is "Biased Love".
Hello. I am the mother of three boys,
an 8-year-old, a 5-year-old, and a 4-year-old.
My husband is the sweetest man.
Who is he so sweet to?
It's our second son Hyung Jun.
- That's very strange. - That's different.
"Ta-da."
"It's a robot you love, Hyung Jun."
"I bought it for you."
Which accent is that?
It sounded really strange.
He must've moved around a lot.
"Dad, where's mine?"
"Give me one too."
"You should buy it with your own money."
Do they have money?
- Oh, my gosh. - He only cares about Hyung Jun.
He always neglects our 1st and the 3rd sons.
- Why is he so biased? - He's strange.
One time, my husband went to the preschool...
to pick up our 2nd and 3rd sons.
"My dear Hyung Jun. Did you have fun today?"
"Honey, where's the little one?"
"I don't know. I just picked up Hyung Jun."
(I don't know. I just picked up Hyung Jun.)
- What? - "I'm sure he will just..."
"walk out by himself."
- But he's younger. - "If you're worried,"
- He's only four years old. - "go get him."
You should take care of the four-year-old more.
Isn't it as if they're someone else's kids?
I want to hear why he is so biased.
Help me. That's the story.
That's a strange story.
This story is breaking...
the stereotype we all have about a second child.
There must be a reason for this.
This lady is worried about her biased husband.
Let's meet her. Please come on out.
(Who's the lady with a biased husband?)
Welcome
She's walking down the slide.
Welcome.
She walked down.
Is it obvious that he loves the second child the most?
Even the preschool teachers know this.
Everyone around us knows about it.
That's how obvious he makes it.
Yes. The boys are 8, 5, and 4.
When he comes home after work, they run to him.
But he only picks up the second one.
- But they all run to him. - Yes.
He doesn't even pat their heads.
When they run up to him, he just picks up Hyung Jun.
The 1st child must arrive at him 1st.
Then my husband goes to Hyung Jun.
He avoids the 1st son and picks up the 2nd son.
Is it a game of soccer or what?
(Let me try it too.)
My 2nd and 3rd sons go to the same preschool.
They stay on different floors in the preschool.
One time, their teacher called me.
"Your husband came to pick up the kids."
"When your youngest saw him and ran towards him,"
"your husband ignored him like a stranger's child..."
"and went straight up to the third floor."
"He came down with Hyung Jun..."
"and went home with him."
- He only took the second child. - That's too much.
That's too mean.
But was he supposed to pick up the youngest too?
- Yes. - That doesn't make sense.
It doesn't make sense.
Did you not say anything? Did you yell at him?
While crying, I asked him why he's doing that.
- He should've picked up both kids. - Of course.
When I asked him why he did that,
he said he couldn't handle watching two kids.
That's why he picked up only Hyung Jun.
- This can't be true. - Why is he so biased?
If this happens in a drama,
there must be secrets behind their births.
"Why did you not pick up the youngest?"
"Why do I have to pick him up? Why would I?"
- Exactly. - "What are you talking about?"
It's nothing like that.
We were just wondering.
- That's interesting. - Is there anything else?
Is there any other story about him being biased?
- There are little toys from grocery stores. - Right.
He only buys them for the second son.
That's a sensitive issue for children.
- He does it so openly. - My 1st and 3rd sons...
pester my husband to buy them one too.
Then he tells them they're too old to be pestering.
- But he's four. - How old do they have to be?
- How about the youngest? - It's the same for him.
- But he's young. - He tells them to make money.
"Aren't you too old to be pestering? You're four."
That's what the children of that age do.
Is there a reason why he cares more about him?
- There might be a reason. - Yes.
- Perhaps he was ill. - I asked him.
- And he said there's no reason. - No reason.
Perhaps the 1st and the 3rd weren't in his plan.
Maybe it went as he planned only with the second.
- "It went as my planned." - What?
He planned it.
- "I made him." - "I'm going to only love him."
"I made it happen."
- That's possible. - He might think...
- he created the child. - That's possible.
- It's not like that. - No?
When you have your first child, you get overwhelmed.
- He's special. - Right. You love your first born.
When I had the first child, he didn't care at all,
and I suffered from a severe postpartum depression.
Why didn't he care? It was his first child.
But he loved the second child from the start.
- But... - How about the third one?
He didn't even bother to come to the hospital.
- To the hospital? - Yes.
Does the second child abuse the youngest?
He has his father's love to himself.
He goes in and makes a mess in the first child's room.
But my husband doesn't make him clean.
He makes the first child clean his room.
Then the first son cries and says, "Why should I?"
- He didn't make a mess. - "I didn't make the mess."
There must be a good reason for this.
- I think there's no reason. - This is unbelievable.
- It is unbelievable. - This is wrong even if...
- If he continues to talk back, - there's a reason.
my husband sometimes hits him.
- He hits the first child. - Yes.
"I told you to clean. Why are you talking back?"
Everything evolves around Hyung Jun,
- the second child. - How many siblings does he have?
He's the second child. He's got an elder brother.
- And he has a younger sister. - Is that the reason?
Does he have a trauma?
Maybe he has too many bad memories.
- That's possible. - That's possible.
That's possible.
Let's meet him first.
Hello.
(Why does he favor his second son?)
You understand your wife's concern, right?
I don't know why she's even worried about this.
Every person who sits there says that.
Let me ask you. Do you like your second son the most?
Yes.
- He said it. - Why do you like him the most?
He acts cute like a daughter.
He acts like a daughter to me.
Perhaps it's because you've been favoring him.
No. He was always like that.
Are you saying he's been like that since birth?
- No. I mean... - Like this?
(Acting like a baby)
It wasn't like that.
But he's much more lovable for some reason.
If you loved your first son like that too,
perhaps he would be lovable too. Don't you think?
I loved him too.
I heard you are a second child too.
Do you favor him because you had bad memories?
I don't have any bad memories about being the second.
Are you close to your siblings?
- Yes, I am. - Did you...
- wear passed-down clothes? - No.
Did they take away your parents' love?
No, they didn't.
- Or... - Then why do you do that?
Why do you do that to your child?
Or did your parents...
love you more than your siblings?
- No. They loved us... - Is it your family thing...
- to favor the second child? - equally.
- They loved you equally. - Do you think you do that?
Right.
I don't, but the second child is still tenderhearted.
Then how about your third child?
Let's say it's because he is tenderhearted.
- Why did you pick up only the second child? - Yes.
How can you explain that?
Like what my wife said, they were on different floors.
The youngest saw me, but I told him to wait.
Then I went up and picked up the second child.
When I came down, the youngest was gone.
- So... - You should've looked for him.
I thought my wife would've done something with him.
Whenever we go to the preschool,
my wife fetches the youngest, and I fetch the second.
I always came out 1st with the 2nd child.
- That's why she takes the third one. - But...
- your wife wasn't there at the time. - Yes.
So you should've fetched both children.
I am too weak to handle two children.
Still, how can you leave your child behind?
Did you say you're too weak to handle two children?
Do you walk while spinning your child like this?
We've always done it this way. That's why I did that.
You told the youngest to wait.
- Did you look for him at all? - When I came down,
he was gone. That's why I just left.
You didn't look for him then.
- I didn't look for him. - You don't love him.
- When you come home from work, - Yes.
- your three children run to you. - Yes.
You could hug all of them.
Why do you only pick up the second child?
In case of the first and the youngest,
they run to me.
But they just say hi.
The second child follows me and talks to me.
He tells me all about his day.
That's why I always give him more love.
He has to be like that.
Your second child is used to spending time with you.
- Right. - But the other ones think that you only...
- love the second. - You didn't give them the chance.
- Right. - That's why they don't talk to you.
- They'd just talk to their mom. - They're afraid.
- Yes. - But I treat them equally.
- You don't! - Then why were you so busy...
only when the first and the youngest were born?
- You became free. - When we had the first child,
I was determined to live diligently...
to support my child.
- I worked busily. - You worked busily.
When my third child was born, I became more pressured.
What about the time you had your second child?
- There were two children. - Having two children...
should have made you work harder.
For some strange reason, I had time back then.
My wife and I had our second child after much effort.
After my wife gave birth to the first child,
she got a surgery on her womb. The doctor said...
she won't get pregnant again.
Since we had our second child after three years,
my heart reached out to him more.
I guess you could feel that way.
That makes your third child even more precious.
I think the second child made the way.
(The second child made the way.)
That must be the reason.
He thinks the second child made the way.
(It makes the second child more precious.)
- This is driving me crazy. - Why didn't you...
hug your third son when he was born?
Your wife said that you rarely hugged him.
I hugged him from time to time.
If he falls asleep in the car,
I hug him to get him out.
You weren't hugging him, but moving him.
Have you given him a hug...
when he was awake to be aware of the hug?
(Thinking)
Well...
- I don't think I have. - Pardon?
How could you do that to your youngest child?
Do you not want to hug him?
- You should hug him. - Not really.
Do you hate your third child?
I don't hate him.
(He didn't answer right away.)
"Do you hate your third child?"
"What in the world are you talking about?"
"Why would I hate my son?" Most parents would say that.
He said, "I don't hate him."
(His answer hints at his thoughts.)
- I was surprised that he had to think. - Me, too.
What is your third son to you?
To be honest, I wanted a daughter.
When I heard that our third child is a son...
- Were you disappointed? - I was disappointed.
- It's not your child's fault. - I know.
He is only a result of an act you committed.
- That's right. - You shouldn't be disappointed.
Please don't say he committed an act.
Okay.
He is only a result of your action.
When your child is born,
isn't it natural to find him lovely?
Since I had experienced it with my first two children,
I didn't feel that way with my third child.
- Gosh. - Wow.
Was your husband very disappointed...
when he found out that the third child will be a boy?
He never accompanied me to the hospital.
Even if there are people around him,
he calls our third son a failure.
What?
- A failure? - Yes.
- Because of that, - The child has done no wrong.
- Eun Ji, hold her hand. - we fought a lot.
We are trying to get our 2nd and 3rd sons...
out of the diaper.
Our second son should get out of it first, right?
When our third son has trouble with it,
my husband goes, "That's because he is stupid."
That's what my husband says.
- Does he say that in front of the child? - Yes.
- With our second son, - He hates his third son.
he goes, "Let him be. He will get out of it in time."
- That's what he says. - It's favoritism.
A few days ago, Seo Jun couldn't fall asleep...
and had trouble breathing.
- That's the third child. - Yes.
When I woke my husband up,
he said, "Go to the hospital tomorrow."
Since it was Sunday the next day,
I took him to the hospital on Monday.
The doctor said he is severely exhausted...
and needs to be hospitalized.
- He said you came too late. - Yes.
My husband don't pay him any attention.
- He treats his son like a stranger. - Yes.
What if your second son gets sick?
Then he makes a fuss.
"Why did you do to make him so sick?"
"You should have taken a better care of him."
"Did you give him something he shouldn't eat?"
- This is serious. - Then he goes to the hospital.
When our third son was sick,
I didn't worry because he had taken medicine...
at the hospital the day before.
What if your second son, Hyung Jun is sick?
I would take him to the hospital.
Listen to yourself.
It's discrimination.
The worst thing is that you know about it.
"It would have been nice to have a daughter."
It's okay to have that thought,
but you call your child a failure in front of him.
Don't you know that you are hurting his feelings?
He is too young to understand my words.
Children know.
Even if he is too young,
- it's wrong to say that. - They remember everything.
It was a joke.
- It's not funny. - Does it make your son laugh?
It's not funny at all.
(It's not funny at all.)
Even your second son is still in diapers.
Why did you call your youngest child stupid...
for being in diapers?
He should learn faster from watching his brothers.
- Do you take him for an adult? - He is still young.
He is too young...
- to learn from watching his brothers. - Sometimes,
you say, "He is too young to understand..."
- "my words." - You called him a failure.
At other times, you go, "Why can't he do this..."
"at the age of four?"
You are being illogical.
We need to find the reason why he does this.
- That's right. - Otherwise, there will be a riot.
It will be very strange if there is no reason.
There will be a riot.
Tell us honestly. Is there a possible reason?
He has always favored our second son.
He got into an accident last year...
and was hospitalized for a long time.
Before a big surgery,
children came to see their dad.
Hyung Jun, our second son, didn't cry loudly.
He just shed tears...
- in silence. - It happened last year.
My husband said that the sight broke his heart.
He said that Hyung Jun is like his only child.
It must have been the crucial moment.
Since I tormented my third son...
all the time,
he stuck his tongue out in front of me.
I was lying down on the bed,
unable to move.
He thought it was a good opportunity.
- I think he did. - "You tormented me so far."
It's cute.
I was very angry.
Seriously.
How would you have felt had your second son went,
"Since Dad got hurt, I will stick my tongue out"?
I would have gotten angry. With my third son,
I was furious.
He was doing that in front of my bed.
- How old are you? - I am 34 years old.
How can a 34year-old get angry...
at a three-year-old for sticking his tongue out?
Since I had tormented him,
- You think it was revenge. - he had his revenge...
when I couldn't move.
There is an answer in your words.
- That's right. You said it yourself. - You claim...
your third son did what he did since you tormented him.
It looks like you know that you tormented him.
I want to stick my tongue out to you too.
(You must have hurt your son's feelings.)
You want to see the children, right?
- Are they here? - Yes.
Children, where are you?
- Please come on out? - Hyung Jun.
Hyung Jun.
(Welcome)
How cute!
- They are so cute. - Hyung Jun is cute.
They are so cute.
- Hyung Seok is the first son. - Yes.
Hyung Seok.
They look the same.
Which one of them is the second son?
Is he the one wearing red?
They have the same face.
(It's the power of genes.)
- They aren't triplets, are they? - No, they aren't.
- Only Hyung Jun is smiling. - You are right.
(Only the second son is smiling.)
The first son, please introduce yourself.
Hello.
What's your name?
Choi Hyung Seok.
- Please introduce your brothers. - Please do that.
What's the second son's name?
- Choi Hyung Jun. - Hyung Jun.
What about the youngest son?
- Choi Seo Jun. - Choi Seo Jun.
- They are handsome. - All of them are cute.
- Look at the youngest son. - Hyung Seok,
who do you think your dad likes the most...
among his children?
Hyung Jun.
Why do you think that?
He only buy toys for Hyung Jun.
- What else does he do? - He plays with Hyung Jun.
He plays with Hyung Jun.
- Does he not play with you or Seo Jun? - No.
Have you asked him to play with you?
- Yes. - What did he say?
He said he is okay and refused play with me.
Did he say, "I am okay."
"I don't want to play."
He treats his sons like his friends.
Were you ever upset at your dad?
I was upset when he didn't buy me toys.
- You were sad. - Toys are the best at that age.
How do you feel...
when you look at Hyung Jun?
I feel angry.
(I feel angry.)
- You feel angry. - You feel angry.
Outside of the situations that involve toys,
- do you still hate your brother? - Do you hate him?
- Yes. - Why?
I get scolded because of Hyung Jun.
My goodness.
Is it because your dad favors Hyung Jun?
- Yes. - Among the things your dad said,
is there something that made you upset?
- Yes. - What was it?
Dad didn't buy me toys.
It's the biggest thing in his life.
He needs toys.
It will be easy to make up with him.
Buying him toys will solve the problem.
- My goodness. - Let Hyung Jun go.
- He goes to Dad. - He goes to Dad.
(He goes to Dad.)
Why is Hyung Jun wearing an outfit...
of a different color?
My outfit is red.
It's a family T-shirt. My husband doesn't have it.
Only the children and I have it.
- The different color wasn't intentional. - No.
Please give the microphone to Hyung Jun.
- Hello. - Hello.
How cute!
Who does your dad like the most?
Me.
- My goodness. - "Me."
Shall we hear from the youngest one?
- He would know. - Can he speak?
- Can he speak? - Let's get him to say hello.
Hello.
Hello, Seo Jun.
- He is the cutest. - He is so cute.
How pretty!
Hello, Seo Jun.
He is so cute.
(It looks like he is upset about something.)
Many thoughts must be going through his head.
Would you give Seo Jun to his dad?
- That's right. - Let's see if he goes that way.
Hold Seo Jun.
No, don't force him. Let's see if he goes to his dad.
It looks awkward.
He only leans on his dad.
There you go.
- My goodness. - It looked like he was thinking,
"Why is he doing this?"
He feels awkward around his dad.
- That's right. - It's really sad.
My goodness.
Goodness. Did you see that?
(Flustered)
Did you see that?
He feels more comfortable there.
He feels uncomfortable around his dad.
My goodness.
- He is about to cry. - Who is he?
- He prefers a stranger. - He is a friend.
Seo Jun's friend?
(Seo Jun's friend?)
Is he Seo Jun's friend?
- I am the dad's friend. - It's entirely possible.
(He is closer to his dad's friend.)
Let's start with the lady.
Please introduce yourself.
Hello.
I am the sister of the children's mom.
I see.
Have you seen your brother-in-law show favoritism?
When he scolds Seo Jun, he hits him on the buttocks,
raps his head,
and pinches his arm.
He doesn't do that to Hyung Jun.
It's no wonder Seo Jun stuck his tongue out.
I know.
Who is the one next to her?
I am the friend of the children's dad.
I go to his place often.
When Hyung Jun plays with Seo Jun's toys,
my friend doesn't say anything.
If Seo Jun plays with Hyung Jun's toys,
he scolds him and says, "Those are your brother's."
I am worried that he will spoil...
his second son.
There are three boys in the family.
They are at the age to establish an hierarchy.
Since the second son knows that Dad is on his side,
there is a good chance he will develop bad manners...
if he hasn't already.
Does he shows signs of it?
When his dad is at home,
everything in the house belongs to him.
He is already spoiled.
Snacks in the refrigerator...
and toys become his.
One day, we got on the elevator.
Hyung Jun began to play with the buttons.
I scolded him...
and Seo Jun teased him by saying,
"You got scolded by Mom."
In an instant,
Hyung Jun slapped Seo Jun.
- He slapped him hard. - My goodness.
When I told my husband that...
- Hyung Jun slapped his brother, - What did he say?
he said to Seo Jun, "Why did you tease your brother?"
- My goodness. - He didn't care about the slap.
- That's ridiculous. - He cared about the teasing.
He was slapped because he teased his older brother.
What is your problem?
Seo Jun shouldn't have teased his brother...
and Hyung Jun shouldn't have slapped his brother.
- That's right. - However,
you only scolded Seo Jun.
- Yes. - That's plain wrong.
I talked to Hyung Jun separately.
Why did you do that? He isn't an adult.
- It's unfair. - He thinks of his sons as friends.
You should have scolded him in front of Seo Jun.
Experts say that...
the favored child...
temporarily feels a great deal...
of satisfaction and happiness.
However, their independence and social adaptability...
are bound to suffer on the long run.
Also, these children can turn hostile...
when their parents don't follow their demands.
"Why do you say no? You used to do everything for me."
You are inflicting the most negative effect...
on your child.
Your sons will become adults.
When you talk to them, they might say,
"What have you done for me?"
"You only cared about Hyung Jun." How would you feel?
(His eyes begin to shift.)
Let's say your third son became your caretaker...
because he is successful.
When you are sick,
he might say, "Go to the hospital tomorrow."
(He begins to understand what it's like.)
"You can go to the hospital tomorrow."
You are so mean.
That's a mean example.
What would you do then?
- Seriously. - Think about that.
It's entirely possible.
I haven't thought about that.
I wouldn't be happy about it.
Of course you wouldn't be happy about it.
Don't you feel like you should change?
I should change.
It's funny because I am the second child.
My mom bought my 1st pants in 8th grade.
It's upsetting to grow up without receiving anything.
However, I couldn't say anything...
because my mom always said that's the way it is.
It wasn't like the family was well-off.
When I received my 1st pants in 8th grade,
I cried.
I cried because I was so happy.
I don't know why I picked them.
They were orange corduroy pants.
- You had no taste. - Seriously.
Seriously.
Those memories stay with you forever.
My mom didn't hurt me intentionally.
However, you do it blatantly.
(A blatant discrimination will leave behind a scar.)
I am scared that I will hate my second son.
That's right.
I end up looking after my 1st and 3rd sons.
That's because they don't receive love from their dad.
I once bought toys only for Hyung Seok and Seo Jun.
I didn't think about Hyung Jun.
- He has toys. - That's right.
When I brought the toys,
Hyung Jun asked, "Why don't I get a toy?"
I said without thinking, "Ask your dad."
- My goodness. - It happened that way.
- That's not good. - You did it without thinking.
- Yes. - What thoughts come to your mind?
It's a big worry.
Thank goodness you think it's a worry.
You didn't think it was a worry at first.
Thank goodness you changed.
Are you confident of changing...
your thoughts, expressions, and actions?
Do you think you should change?
- Yes, I think I should change. - That's right.
Thank goodness.
(Please change, Honey.)
Please say something to your husband.
Hyung Seok, Hyung Jun, and Seo Jun...
are all our sons.
You say our 2nd and 3rd children are too young,
but Hyung Seok is old enough to understand.
I want to hear Hyung Seok say,
"I like Dad. Dad loves all of us."
Please make an effort so that we can live happily.
That's right.
(Please make an effort for the three children.)
Let's start with Jae Jung.
- I think... - Is it a worry?
it's a worry.
Parents are the first people a child meets.
Please think of his reason for being and love.
Since it has been solved, I won't say it's a worry.
I think it's a worry.
I hope he will be more responsible as a dad.
He will do a good job.
I also think it's a worry. I can't press it.
(What is up with them?)
What is going on?
You aren't on "We Got Married".
What is going on?
I think it's a worry.
I hope he will give love he hasn't given so far.
It's my wish.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, - In 5, 4,
- 3, 2, 1. - 3, 2, 1.
- Time's up. - Time's up.
Even though the eldest son...
didn't understand our conversation 100 percent,
- I am sure he knows what's going on. - That's right.
It must have been hard for him to hear everything.
A child's mind is complicated.
Back in the days, people didn't think...
it was appropriate...
for parents to apologize to their children.
However, Hello let me know that's not the case.
- That's right. - This is a good opportunity.
I think...
it would be nice to apologize to your first son.
Look at your dad, Hyung Seok.
- He has something to say. - Look into his eyes.
(It's awkward for them to maintain an eye contact.)
My son.
I am not good at expressing myself.
From now on, I will love...
Hyung Seok, Hyung Jun, and Seo Jun equally.
Please don't keep the past in your heart.
I will take you to trips...
- and sauna. - Promise to buy him toys.
I will be sure to buy you toys.
I am sorry for everything. I will treat you well.
Give him a kiss.
(Kiss)
Lastly, say a few words to your wife.
She is the most important.
It sounds like I was in the wrong.
I will change my ways...
- That's right. - to treat them equally.
I hope you won't suffer.
I am sorry.
My goodness.
It's good that you admitted your wrongdoings.
- It's good. - How many votes did the worry receive?
Show us the result.
"Biased Love".
- The last digit is 5. - It went over 100 votes.
How many votes will it be?
155 votes.
(155 votes)
That's incredible.
(155 votes)
Depending on a person,
this could be good or extremely bad.
My office is well-known for its family-like atmosphere.
It's thanks to my boss.
"For the team's unity and progress,"
"we will have a get-together after work."
"The weather is gloomy."
"Let's have a get-together."
"What are you doing on your day off?"
"The weather is nice."
"Let's have a get-together."
That's too often.
My coworkers and I are frustrated by his insistence.
"I can't join the get-together because I have a cold."
"A cold?"
"Alcohol will cure it. Come with me."
That day, I became sick with a cold and a hangover.
We have get-togethers all week.
Please stop my boss.
(Please stop my boss.)
Do you like drinking?
- I like drinking, - I see.
but my agency doesn't have a get-together often.
I wish we had more get-togethers.
We had a get-together only once in the past two years.
- Everyone is busy. - That's right.
(That doesn't suit me.)
How is your boss at a get-together?
He's really good at grilling meat.
(I saw him do it once, but he's really good.)
He keeps grilling if you compliment him.
I complimented him a lot.
(He just ate while his boss was grilling meat.)
Let's meet our guest and hear the story.
- Please come out. - Please come out!
(Who is the guest whose boss is addicted to partying?)
(She's cute.)
(Kang Yoo Jin)
Be careful.
She came down the slide too fast.
(Is she hungover?)
It's quite steep.
Does he really drink with his employees so often?
I've been working at this used car dealership.
There are 10 employees at my company.
The official work get-together is only once a month.
- Once a month? - Yes.
However, we drink together 18 times a month.
- 18 out of 30 days? - At least 18 days.
- 18 days at least? - At least?
At first, he gathered us because we sold a car,
or because it was our pay day.
- He had reasons at least. - I see.
- Now... - How about now?
"The weather is nice. Let's have a drink."
- "Today is Wednesday. Let's drink." - Exactly.
- Like this? - Yes.
Can't you just...
make an excuse to avoid it?
When I tell him that I have plans,
he asks me about three times,
"Is that true? Do you really have plans?"
If I miss a work drink, he holds a grudge against me.
(He holds a grudge if his employees miss a work drink.)
I see.
Next day, he keeps looking at my face and says...
(Next day, whenever he runs into her...)
"Were you that busy yesterday?"
(Were you too busy to miss the work drink?)
- That would be uncomfortable. - I see.
He says, "You look great. You must've had fun."
- "We had so much fun without you." - Right.
- Like this? - Yes.
Why does he drink with his employees so often?
He believes that drinking together is the only way...
to improve team bonding.
We drink about 20 bottles at the first bar.
- 20 bottles of soju? - Soju?
That means each one drinks two bottles.
We drink another 20 bottles at the second bar.
- Oh, gosh. - Does he let you come to work late?
He's always the first one to arrive.
- He has a healthy liver. - He comes at 9am sharp.
- Healthy liver. - That's why he can drink a lot.
He scolds us because we're late.
- He made you drink. - Exactly.
Does he say, "We'll drink tonight sine you're late."
- He says that sometimes. - I see.
He says that we're weak-minded.
Who pays the bills when you drink together?
My boss pays most of the time.
- He doesn't pay sometimes? - That's right.
- If someone sold a lot of cars, - I see.
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If it's my pay day,
he texts me, "Thank you for this."
- Is that true? - Yes.
How many times out of 10 times...
does your boss pay?
- About six times. - He pays more than half,
and his employees pay the rest...
- in turns? - That's unfair.
- He should pay every time. - He should pay.
- He should. - He should pay since he gathered them.
- If you gather people together, you pay. - Exactly.
- Don't you agree? - I don't get paid that much.
I can't afford to pay 100 or 200 dollars at gatherings.
That's too much.
Exactly.
(How would you improve team bonding like this?)
If you reveal the bad thing about your boss,
- would you be all right after this? - Right.
- He easily holds grudges. - Will you be okay?
To be honest, I'm a little afraid,
but my health comes first.
(I should save my life first.)
- So I mustered up courage. - For your health.
It's for her health.
- You're here to maintain your health. - Yes.
Let's meet her boss and hear him out.
Where are you?
- Hello. - Hello.
She told us about her concern.
- Yes. - Can you understand her?
To be honest, I can't fully understand her.
He's always like that.
All the time.
I don't think she can get any more than 50 votes.
Used car dealers change jobs frequently.
I started to drink with my employees...
to help them bond with each other.
As they liked it, I came to drink with them more often.
- He's the only one who likes it. - You think...
Did you just call him sweetie?
- Are you dating him? - No, I said "he".
- The way I see it, - She said "he".
it looks like...
there's something going on between the two of them.
(Is there something going on between them?)
(She strongly denies it.)
- I'm offended. - Our guest...
She just said,
- "I'm offended." - Right.
Even though she doesn't feel that way for him,
it might be one of the reasons why he wants to...
- Right. - drink with his employees so often.
- Let's ask him... - Are you married?
(Are you married, by any chance?)
- Yes, I'm married. - You are?
I apologize.
- I see. - However...
Why did you jump to a conclusion?
(He's embarrassing.)
You drink with them 3 to 4 times a week.
- Don't you think it can be stressful? - Right.
Mostly, when we drink together,
I go home after having a few drinks.
- It takes some time to do that already. - Right.
Your employees drink more?
Yes, they drink more without me.
When we drink together,
we get excited as we get drunk.
- Of course. - So we drink some more...
after he goes home. That's true.
However, when he gets a little tipsy,
he tells us to go home too.
- He can just leave. - He wants you to leave too?
- He wants to end the gathering? - Yes.
When we say we're tired and want to go home,
- he says, "Gosh, you traitors." - Oh, my.
- He's abusing his power. - Exactly.
Why does he call you out on holidays?
Before I joined the company, my boss promised...
that he would never make me work on weekends.
So I joined the company.
We live in the same unit in the same apartment complex.
In the same unit?
- They're neighbors. - That's too bad.
She can't refuse it.
If I run, I can get there in four seconds.
- Four seconds. - You two live very close.
On weekends, he asks me...
if I want to have a barbecue, and I go out.
He asks me to grill meat so he can drink.
- I have a question. - Go ahead.
- He's married. - Right.
- He has a wife at home. - That's right.
- I think she should be here too. - I think so too.
Your wife must be worried.
In fact, I got divorced.
- You got divorced? - Yes, I did.
(Oh, my. I'm so sorry.)
- I'm sorry. - Are you single now?
- Yes, I am. - I see.
- He's single. - See? I told you so.
What did I tell you?
(Dong Yeob is so fast on catching on other people.)
No wonder.
- That's why... - I had a feeling.
- It all adds up now. - That's right.
- Please go on. - That's why I can't refuse it.
- He's divorced. - He keeps saying he has no friends,
- and no one to drink with. - As Dong Yeob said,
don't you think that he drinks with you...
- because he has feelings for you? - What is it?
As I said, that offends me.
- Please go ahead. - She wouldn't know,
- but her boss... - He likes her?
might be hiding flowers and a ring behind him.
(He might be hiding flowers and a ring.)
- Sir. - Sir, tell us the truth.
- Tell us the truth. - It's not like that.
We don't drink alone together. Mr. Park drinks with us.
- When celebrities date someone, - Right.
- they call their manager. - Exactly.
(Oh, it's to fool other people.)
You joined them often, right?
I did. I thought Dong Yeob had feelings for me.
(I thought I was the one that Dong Yeob liked.)
It turned out he liked my friend.
- Hang on. - It was a long time ago.
Excuse me.
(We all know that.)
Let's meet the other employees.
Welcome.
- Hello. - Hello.
Are the three of you having a hard time too?
Please tell us how you feel.
Okay.
- He sounds... - He looks tired.
You drank last night, right?
Did you drink last night?
Yes, we did.
- Right. - "Let's drink since we'll be on Hello."
He hates it when we don't drink a shot all at once.
He always holds the bottle instead of his glass.
He holds it until we finish our glasses...
to put pressure on us.
The real problem is that we sell cars,
but we reek of alcohol in front of our customers.
Our work is delayed, and we get complaints.
Likewise, drinking after work...
- causes trouble. - I see.
I'm 42 years old.
It takes me a long time to sober up.
That's so sad.
He must be the most worried.
I couldn't go to work once or twice.
My boss said I'm too weak to drink that much.
He looks down on me.
While I was working for him for the past year,
I gained 15kg.
(It's a serious problem.)
- Because of alcohol. - Yes.
(The work drinks damaged his health.)
- Drinking alcohol makes you fat. - Goodness.
- It's a serious problem. - You must've been skinny.
- Next... - You look like you gained a lot of weight.
I gained over 10kg for the past 6 months.
- Really? - As I gained over 10kg,
I have to buy new clothes every month.
(He buys new clothes every month.)
- Also... - Every month.
- If I miss the gathering, he bullies me. - My gosh.
He talks to the other employees...
- and they go for lunch without me. - He holds grudges.
I think they gained weight because of...
their lack of self-management skills.
- As for me, - You don't give them free time.
- every morning, - He has a muscular body.
I do some exercises such as squats...
and push-ups for 20 minutes, and I sober up.
After I take a shower, I feel okay.
- So I tell them... - That's why he has thick arms.
to drink just as much as I am.
- That's because you're healthy. - That's just you.
I used to work at a pharmaceutical company.
When I meet with my clients,
I drank until 2am to 4am or 5am,
but I went to work by 7:30am.
- It's all a matter of attitude. - But...
(Oh, my gosh!)
Weren't you tired when you worked at the company...
drinking every day with your clients?
I always enjoyed drinking with my work colleagues.
I talked about what happened that day with them.
I didn't think my employees would have a hard time.
I'll explain to you.
There are some people with a strong liver.
You have a strong liver, but they don't.
Don't you think it's too much for them...
to drink as much as you do every day?
They'd be okay if they drink just as much as I do.
He just said you force them to drink a lot.
It doesn't take him a long time to recover...
- after drinking alcohol. - I thought so.
We feel so tired the day after we drink.
I couldn't eat anything. I was sick.
- Did you throw up too? - Yes, I did.
I once got so sick I had to get an IV injection.
- Oh, no. - However,
I had to drink the next day.
My goodness.
In your letter, you said that he had said...
that drinking alcohol helps to recover from a cold.
One day, I was taking medications for a cold.
He said that drinking alcohol helps to recover,
so I drank that night. Next day...
What happened next day?
I had a really hard time.
- Of course. - Did you recover from the cold?
- She put it mildly. - She had a cold.
She got an IV injection, and threw up.
Why did you force her to drink?
I don't force my employees to drink.
I'm just joking around them.
- Pardon? - I just told her...
to sit there with us without drinking.
I told her to eat some meat.
He's lying.
- He's lying? - Is that a lie?
That's all a lie.
He kept forcing me to drink.
Did he pour you a glass?
Yes, he said I should drink it to recover.
I once drank soju...
to make myself sweat, and recovered from a cold.
I said that jokingly.
I made her drink less than usual.
- She drank a little. - It's all from your viewpoint.
- Exactly. - Drinking motivates you...
because you like drinking.
Your employees don't enjoy drinking.
How can they be motivated when it makes them sick?
As I heard you, I can understand them a little,
- I see. - but until now,
- I didn't think... - What don't you like?
- What do you mean? Food? - Anything.
I don't like running.
Imagine your boss asks you to jog with him.
- Let's say you got a new job. - Your superior...
"Let's go for a run since it's Wednesday."
"We should go for a run since it's weekend."
He wants you to jog with him every day.
Would you be happy about that?
- I should get used to that. - Sorry?
(Goodness)
- Get used to it? - You're abusing your power.
Why don't you join us for a drink?
I don't want to!
We drink in a good atmosphere.
I'm sure you do.
It's a good thing, but if you drink too often,
your employees can suffer from it.
Do you not have any friends?
(Don't you have any friends?)
- I mean... - He has a point.
- You should meet your friends... - Right.
- and... - My apartment is far from the city.
I have to drive a long way to meet my friends.
Besides, most of my friends have children.
They have a few drinks and go home early.
You should set your boss up...
- with a lady you know. - That can be a way.
I think that'd be the best way.
I tried that too.
He said, "I like drinking with you guys the most."
See? I told you so. My goodness.
However, he's the only one who enjoys that.
- I see. - Also, he has bad mood swings.
He's mostly nice to us, but when he's drunk,
he tells us to be quiet in an irritated voice.
- Is he seriously mad? - When he's in a bad mood?
He makes a lot of jokes when we drink together.
- I see. - His jokes...
are not very funny.
If we don't laugh, he gets upset.
- He gets angry. Laughing at his jokes... - Gosh.
- is not enough. - He's laughing.
We should mean it saying, "You're amazing."
Really?
"You're amazing."
Mr. Park, please go ahead.
For me, it's the hardest to keep up with his speed.
- His drinking speed? - I want to take a break.
However, every time...
he drinks, we have to drink too.
You have to drink as much as he does?
- Yes. - Why would you force them to have...
- the same habit as yours? - He's...
- Exactly. - He never gives me a break.
Doesn't your wife complain about this?
I have a wife and a seven-year-old son.
They hate my boss.
Why would they like him?
My seven-year-old son always calls me...
to say that he wants to eat dinner with me.
When I tell him that I have a work dinner,
he says...
he really wants to eat with me. He sounds disappointed.
- Oh, dear. - When I hear him say that,
I feel sorry for him.
(The work drinks make his seven-year-old son unhappy.)
(Oh, no.)
He looks like Byun Jin Sub.
- You're right. - He does, indeed.
- I know. - Tell us your wishes.
I can endure everything they just talked about,
but I can't eat...
any more fried chicken.
- They eat fried chicken often. - It makes you fat.
We eat fried chicken 9 out of 10 times.
We always go to the same restaurant.
- I see. - I don't even want to see the owner.
- You hate it that much? - I never buy fried chicken.
I love fried chicken, but that's too much.
Why do you always eat fried chicken?
All my family members like fried chicken.
If we can choose between a barbecue and fried chicken,
we always choose fried chicken.
That's your family. Think of your employees.
- He's not considerate of others. - I went there...
because it's quiet and nice to talk with them.
Then, I found out the restaurant uses clean oil.
He's lying. That's a lie.
Okay.
You shouldn't lie on a TV show.
The restaurant is right in front of his house...
- in his neighborhood. - Goodness.
- He can walk home. - For his own convenience?
That's right. He can walk home from there.
- He calls them to his neighborhood. - Gosh.
He's such a selfish man that everyone around him...
has to do as he wants.
- In fact... - Eun Ji lost her temper.
I'm sorry.
You said your employees are like family to you,
but you're treating them as if they're your servants.
- He's acting like a king. - You know...
You don't always feel comfortable around your family.
Sometimes you don't.
- That's true. - He yells at his employees...
just to make them like his own family.
He says he enjoys it and he's not controlling,
- but he's quite dogmatic. - He is, indeed.
Right? What's the hardest part?
Regardless of whether it's a weekday or a weekend,
I have to go out when he calls me out.
I can never attend my friends' birthday parties.
Not long ago, a friend of mine...
who lives far away from me...
visited me on a weekend.
However, he wanted to drink saying he's in a bad mood.
I told my friend I couldn't meet her because of work.
My friend was very disappointed.
- Of course. - That's ridiculous.
- His employees are so nice. - As everyone is busy,
it's hard to set a date for a family dinner.
My boss asked me to drink with him,
so I couldn't have dinner with my family.
- He's a nuisance. - You can't even see your family?
Not long ago, I dated someone for a while.
- I see. - Did you break up with her?
We broke up.
- Oh, my. - I told her...
how often I drink with my colleagues.
- She thought I was lying. - Of course.
She didn't believe me. I had to make a video call,
and send her a group photo to prove I wasn't lying.
However, as it was repeated month after month...
They even drink at the same place.
- Exactly. - I couldn't say it's because of my boss.
- They can't exercise when they want. - It means...
that none of your employees can have a private life.
They're here to ask you to give them freedom.
He looks like a nice person...
who is an alcoholic.
I'm serious.
He looks drunk.
He hasn't told me that it's hard for him...
to date someone before.
She didn't tell me that her friend visited her.
I thought they felt comfortable around me.
I'm sure they told you that before,
but when they did, you reacted badly,
- and it backfired. - Right,.
They're afraid it might only do them harm,
so they think they better not tell you.
Even if you say that they don't have to come,
- it doesn't work. - That's ridiculous.
- Right. - It's as if you chose a cheap menu,
and tell them to choose anything they want.
They must be under pressure as you're their boss.
- You should drink less often. - They're afraid.
I hope we drink together just once a month.
- Once a month? - Once a month?
- That sounds good. - Let's hear them out.
How many times a month would be acceptable?
- Once a month sounds reasonable. - All right.
Mr. Park, what about you?
Twice a month.
- Twice a month? - Okay.
- You two can drink alone together. - Right.
That's a good idea.
(Did I really say that?)
Once every three months.
- He's tired. - He really hates it.
He's tired of his job.
- He needs to buy new clothes too often. - Right.
They said once a month. What do you think?
I will drink with them less often,
but we should get together more than once a month.
- Why? - When I started my business,
I had no experience in this field.
I wanted to adjust to this industry quickly.
Drinking doesn't make your bond stronger.
Shouldn't you understand their needs and desires...
as the owner of the company?
- I can't change it over night. - He's laughing.
How many times will you drink with them?
I think twice a week would be okay.
Please let me explain what the problem is.
You drink with them to motivate them,
- That's not true. - but they're discouraged.
- They're discouraged. - You can drink...
as often as you want.
We're talking about the times you drink with them.
- Exactly. - I don't understand why he wants to...
drink with people who don't want to drink.
- It's bad because... - Right.
it's not enjoyable at all.
I realized that I had things my own way.
- Everything. - Everything.
If they hate it, I'll drink with them once or twice...
a month from now on.
Give them your word.
- Okay. - Like a man.
Say something you want to tell him for the last time.
He planned...
a two-day trip to go with us...
- at the end of this month. - That's too much.
- He's unbelievable. - He suggested we should...
- A two-day trip. - drink until we pass out.
- After that trip, - Until they pass out?
I hope we don't go on a trip like that too often.
We can drink coffee instead of alcohol drinks.
- We can watch a movie together... - Right.
to make our bond stronger.
(We hope he gets a healthy hobby.)
(Please, we're begging you.)
Do you think it's a worry?
- Where's my remote? - They're a team and a family.
If any one of them is concerned or stressed out,
- I think there's a problem. - That's right.
- I think it's definitely a worry. - You do?
I think the employees...
have had enough of his behavior.
even though the CEO is nice and all.
I also think it's a worry.
At first, I thought he's a friendly CEO,
but it's vital to separate your work and personal life.
Press the button if you empathize with her worry.
(What does the audience think?)
- My gosh. - All right.
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Stop. - Stop.
Sir, please say a few words to your employees.
I guess I have been selfish...
when communicating with my employees.
Tell me right away if there's something you want.
That way, I'll try to fix it immediately.
If they don't let me know, I won't know.
- Say a few words to her. - Yes.
I'm really sorry.
We're neighbors, so I found you comfortable.
I'll go eat with Mr. Park now.
- He did nothing wrong though. - Poor Mr. Park.
Mr. Park didn't get to speak.
- He has a seven-year-old child though. - Exactly.
Show us how many votes her story got.
- The last digit is 8. - It's 8.
- It'll get over 100 votes. - It got over 100 votes.
- My gosh. - Goodness!
- Is it 138 votes? - Is it 138 votes?
(It got way more than 100 votes.)
It got 138 votes.
Sir, it got 138 votes.
(I'll keep my promise.)
She's struggling every single day...
from a fight that seems to never end.
Hello.
Summer, the season to show your body, has come.
My sister succeeded in losing 10kg...
after making strenuous effort.
The problem is that her diet doesn't seem to end.
"Don't you think that I lost a bit of weight?"
"What about my waist?"
"I guess you did lose a bit of weight."
"Hey!"
(You!)
"Tell me the truth!"
"Tell me where and how much I lost weight!"
She's sensitive.
(The sensitive boss has come!)
"What's this smell?"
"Is it ramyeon? For goodness' sake!"
(Swearing violently)
"Are you eating again?"
"What did I tell you to do while I'm on a diet?"
"I told you not to eat anything at home!"
- Gosh, she's sensitive. - She's sensitive.
(There's nobody who's more sensitive than her sister.)
I can no longer see my sister...
who is becoming exhausted from her dramatic diet.
Please stop my sister's diet now.
(Sister! Stop going on a diet.)
- Women are always anxious about diet. - Right.
- Many girl groups go on a diet. - That's right.
- We lose 8kg to 9kg at once, - It's true.
then we gain back in three months.
- Isn't it bad for your health? - It's bad.
That's why I got an atopic dermatitis...
because my immune system has become weaker.
- If you starve yourself, - That's right.
take anorectic agents, and use wrong methods for diet,
- your immune system becomes weak. - Yes.
- That's right. - Yes, my body type has changed.
(It's so tough.)
Please come on out!
(Who is suffering because of her sister's diet?)
- She's the younger sister. - Come here.
(Hello)
What is your sister's diet like?
It's quite extreme.
When she thinks she gained weight, she starves herself.
She drinks water only.
- She drinks water only for three meals. - Really?
She eats 5 cherry tomatoes and 2 eggs...
for the day.
- In total? - That's what she eats.
I was worried that she'd be malnourished,
so I fed her vitamins.
How nice of you. What happened then?
Since she took it on an empty stomach, she vomited.
- It's bad for your stomach. - It's vitamin C.
You mustn't take vitamin C on an empty stomach.
(It's worth worrying about, right?)
Why is she on such diet?
Is she fat?
She lost 10kg from her diet in the past year.
- She weighs 53kg now. - That's nice.
However, she wants to be skinny like me.
She wants to be skinny like female idol singers.
We're not that skinny.
(We're not that skinny.)
The two idol singers who are not skinny are here.
All the idol singers who are not skinny are here.
Is she planning on losing more weight then?
She says she'll lose 5kg by next week.
- 5kg by next week? - How can you lose 5kg in a week?
- Exactly. - What will she do? Eat nothing?
She works at a clothing shop in a department store.
- She mostly stands. - She stands for nine hours.
She works while standing.
When she has free time, she does squats.
- She even exercises there? - While standing?
After work, from the subway station,
it takes about an hour to walk home.
She walks home after work?
- Yes, she walks home. - Amazing.
She's incredible.
(Stop it.)
She's not asking you to go on a diet together.
Why are you unhappy with that?
I'm living with my sister in a studio flat.
- In a studio flat. - I see.
That's why I bump into her every time.
- That's right. - You keep seeing her.
When we have eye contact, she asks "Did I lose weight?"
"I think you really lost weight."
"Don't lie."
- "You sound absentminded." - That's right.
"Why don't you get fat? You eat so much."
(She is blunt. It's like a torture.)
Her sister's constant remarks stress her out.
How can you eat food then?
You could end up starving yourself like your sister.
That's right. I can't eat at home, so I go...
- to convenience stores. - Convenience stores.
- I eat there and come home. - On your way home,
- you eat what you want at convenience stores? - Yes.
I tend to tell others to eat.
- "Please eat this." - People have different styles.
Our road managers get fat when we're on a diet.
- I see. - Yes.
(Apink likes their chubby managers a lot.)
Let's meet her sister. Hello.
(Who harasses her sister with the extreme diet?)
She's pretty.
Please stand up.
- You don't need to lose weight. - Stand up.
- Show us. - We'll give you an objective opinion.
Turn around like this...
- just once. - She looks healthy.
- You look pretty. - You don't need to lose weight.
We don't think you need to lose weight.
No, I need to lose more.
I want to be in the low 40kgs.
(She's never been that light.)
- Gosh, it's bad for you. - Around 40kg?
There must be a reason why you want to lose weight.
People say that you're the prettiest in your 20s,
so I want to be the prettiest at such age.
Like Hyun A or the actress Jung Hye Sung,
I want to have a body that was born skinny.
Too bad you're already born.
Exactly. I weighed 98kg when I was 29 years old.
I want to be skinny.
- You're not convincing her. - I was on a roll.
- You were on a roll. - You were.
- She was fat. - Why must you lose 5kg by next week?
- Is there a reason? - What's happening next week?
It's not that,
but I think it's possible...
- to lose 5kg in a week. - It's summer.
You started it so suddenly though.
I danced for 10 years.
- You danced. - I did.
- I did street dance. - Street dance.
- I did street dance. - Strip dance...
- It's "street dance". - I see.
(Is he lustful?)
It's "street dance".
Street dance.
- I knew I made a mistake. - I did street dance...
I gained 10kg after I quit dancing,
so when I worked at a cell phone agency,
my boss and my coworker addressed me as "pig".
- They addressed me that way. - Then...
I worked part-time as an extra for about six months.
The leaders asked if I was a track and field athlete.
"Your legs seem healthy."
At the department store, customers and my coworkers...
tell me that my legs are like those of an elephant.
- Customers do? - "You have a hippo's hips."
"You must be born again to have skinny legs."
- They say these things. - No way.
- They say those things? - Customers say that?
I hear that stuff almost every single day.
- You get that even now? - Yes, it was few days ago.
It wasn't even a week ago when I heard it.
"My daughter is so skinny."
"It's so nice to see a fat person like yourself."
- Why would she do that? - A customer said that?
No, the coworkers I work with.
They say those things.
- Do they do that to you only? - It's worse to me.
I'm younger than them...
- It's because you're pretty. - That's right.
Since the place is small,
I feel that I'm the target of the conversation.
When I was younger,
I was also stressed out about having a big face.
"Your face covers the whole sun. Step aside."
When I heard those things,
I didn't like it.
- I didn't see Bo Mi's face once. - Same here.
- You can't see Bo Mi's face. - I can't see it.
What do you think after hearing your sister's story?
I think she's stressed out about her figure.
I knew it, but she relieves such stress...
- by venting at me. - I see.
- She takes it out on you. - That's right.
- What does she do? - She's hysterical.
When I'm eating something,
she'd ask if I'm eating again.
"Why don't you get fat? Why do I gain weight only?"
She says things like those.
Do you relieve your stress with your sister only?
First, she's the only one...
I can talk to at ease.
- In fact, seeing her... - You're jealous?
frustrates me.
- She eats, but she doesn't get fat. She's skinny.
We have the same genes,
but she's tall and slim with a slender waist.
On the other hand, I think I'm fat,
so just seeing her makes me upset.
I get that, but she also finds...
joy from eating at the end of the day.
You could get vicarious satisfaction from the food...
- she eats. - I hate wanting to eat by smelling food.
I have to starve myself,
so I hate the situations where I want to eat.
- Exactly. - I'm afraid of eating.
(What's wrong with you?)
What do you do for a living?
I work in customer service at a credit card company.
- Gosh, that's tough too. - That's also...
- a very stressful job. - That's right.
Some customers swear at me.
- They still do? - Yes.
When I'm hesitating quietly out of fear,
some said, "Keeping talking, you."
- People still do that? - Yes.
- I don't get it. - I can't believe...
- there are people like that. - There are a lot.
- There are a lot like that. - How do you relieve...
- your stress then? - I eat.
- You eat. - By eating?
- She forbids you from eating. - You can't eat.
You must relieve stress, but she doesn't let you eat.
How do you relieve it then?
I can't relieve it because of her.
Gosh, what's wrong with her?
(She sounds really upset.)
Tell me what you eat when you're on a diet.
For lunch, I eat 1 banana, 5 cherry tomatoes,
and two boiled eggs.
For dinner, if I'm seriously starving,
I drink low-fat milk.
That's all you eat for lunch?
Yes.
You've been doing this for a year now?
In case I eat fried chicken on team nights,
- I'd... - Look behind you.
(Do you like fried chicken too?)
What do you do then?
In case I eat fried chicken,
I starve...
for about three days.
(She starves for 3 days.)
(My goodness.)
- Seriously... - That's why...
I always live within the rules I set myself.
That would be totally stressful.
- You won't lose any weight. - What's happiness?
You'll store fat...
since your body doesn't know when you'll get energy.
- Exactly. - The faster you lose weight by starving,
the faster you'll gain back.
Eventually, you'll keep starving again and again.
Do you mind telling me if you have a boyfriend or not?
Yes, I have a boyfriend...
- whom I just started dating. - It's new.
How do you eat when you go on a date?
I don't want to show my sensitive side since it's new.
I eat,
but I don't eat more than a half bowl of rice.
Does he know that you're on such diet then?
- Yes, since it's bad for my health, - Exactly.
he tells me not to go on a diet.
However, I keep telling him that I'll continue.
(I don't understand.)
She's been on a diet for a year. How was she before?
She used to love eating as well,
but since we moved to Seoul,
she started going on a diet.
Since you moved to Seoul?
Since there are many pretty women in Seoul...
You lose fat to look like you're from Seoul.
(What a lame joke.)
I see.
- Let's meet her friend. - What an old man.
Hello.
You're the sister's friend.
Yes, I'm the sister's friend.
(Nice to meet you.)
What do you think about her?
When we're on the phone, she'd tell me...
that she'll call back since her stomach hurts.
She hangs up like that.
It must be hard to meet her because she wouldn't...
- want to eat out. - That's right.
When we eat out, she refuses to eat.
"I'll be sitting in front of you while you eat."
- Seriously... - She'd say that.
When I say that I'll treat her to an expensive meal,
she says she can't eat since the food looks like fat.
- What's the matter with her? - She'd eat nothing...
and drink coffee at a coffee shop.
(Sister, what's wrong with you?)
Your sister is mostly worried about your health.
- That's right. - How can you work...
after eating that little food? Are you okay?
Actually,
I feel that my brain shuts down for a while.
(I feel that my brain shuts down for a while.)
- What? - There are moments like that.
- Isn't that serious? - It feels...
as though everything just stops.
Even when someone says something,
it wouldn't be inputted to my brain.
- That's not good. - My eyelids tremble.
- You need magnesium. - My hands and feet tremble.
The nutrition imbalance is serious.
However, I've never fainted.
- I've never had... - Will you stop if you faint?
a serious accident yet...
You mustn't go on a diet that makes you faint.
- You mustn't do that. - You'll ruin your health.
Why faint? Aren't you trying to be happy?
However, she almost fainted once.
- She had bloody discharge for 10 days. - Oh, my.
- My gosh. - For 10 days?
- Her body lost nutritional balance. - Oh, dear.
- That's what happened. - If you starve,
you get diseases with weak immune system.
Eun Ji also suffered from middle ear infection.
Yes, I got sinusitis for the first time in my life.
I also got middle ear infection at the same time.
My tonsils were all swollen,
so I couldn't even sing for a while.
I get why your sister is worried,
but I'm more worried about your health...
- since that's what I'm going through. - Exactly.
She never goes to hospitals.
Why don't you go to hospitals?
Doctors will obviously say that starving is the cause.
In order to take medication, you need to eat.
I don't have the confidence to do that.
Aren't you worried about your health?
- She continues... - All at once, you'll run into...
- a huge problem. - Your body's protesting now.
- Of course. - It keeps protesting,
but you're not accepting it.
If you don't negotiate and cope with your body now,
- riots will break out. - Your body goes on strike.
Tell me honestly. Do you have pain elsewhere...
that your sister is not aware of?
I have bad knees.
One day, I had a pain as if a hammer hit my knees.
I went to the hospital in the middle of work.
It was patellar ligament infection.
Since I exercised too much without eating,
- the doctor said that I got... - Exactly.
- an infection on my ligaments. - You keep standing.
Did you not go back to the hospital then?
I didn't go back after the doctor diagnosed me.
What was the reason?
- The doctor didn't let me exercise. - Oh, dear.
You need to have ligaments in order to exercise.
It was tough back then.
Gaining or losing a bit of weight...
- is not what matters. - Of course not.
Building your self-esteem and confidence...
will be more important. You have a boyfriend too.
What do you think?
I guess I developed a victim mentality.
When someone says that I'm pretty, I wonder what he...
- really means. - You don't accept a praise as is.
Yes, I often think that way.
An ex-boyfriend of mine that I dated two years back...
told me that I should lose fat on my legs.
"It'd be nice if your calves were a bit slimmer."
He told me these things directly.
If you want to lose fat on your legs only,
there are exercises to target your legs.
You shouldn't be doing what you're doing now.
They say that you'll lose fat on your legs in the end.
- That's not true. - It's not like that.
I've been to the concerts of Beyonce and Britney...
- Stewardess... Spears. - It's "Spears".
- Is it an airplane? - Yes...
- Hey... - I'm sorry.
- He's American. - You don't even speak English.
- There's no use in living in the US. - I'm sorry.
Their legs...
- When you look at them, - There's really something.
- their legs are this huge. - They're huge.
They're so cool. They're the best.
I was totally surprised when she danced like this.
What was that?
Was it "Single Ladies" by any chance?
- "Single Ladies". - Single lady
It goes like this.
- Like this. - You should stand up.
Here comes Kang Ho Dong.
(Beyonce, are you watching me?)
She danced like this.
She was totally gorgeous.
However, when I see your sister...
You made a mistake in setting your role model.
You're like Beyonce.
Some people would envy you. Be satisfied with yourself,
and have self-esteem.
I'm not sure what others think, but I think I'm okay.
That's why I find every single day joyful.
That's happiness.
Do you have a wish for your sister?
In fact, since my mom and dad separated,
- I didn't see my sister for... - They got a divorce?
You must have lived apart from your sister for long.
How long were you two apart from each other?
(The sisters met after a long time.)
About 7 to 8 years.
You lived apart from your sister.
There are many things I'd like to do with her.
I want to go to Seoul...
and hang out together...
or enjoy delicious food at home.
You want to eat together and chat.
We can do nothing because of her diet.
- That's right. - You want to create good memories.
Did you know about this?
When my sister came to Seoul for the first time,
we went out together.
After talking with each other for a while,
I realized that it was our first time going out alone.
However, due to my diet,
- we couldn't go to a coffee shop. - What is that?
We couldn't eat out either.
We walked all the way from Hongdae to Sangsu.
We ended up walking back to our neighborhood.
I didn't realize it then, but she would've been upset.
- I knew it. - You're missing out...
- on the most precious thing every day. - Exactly.
(You might be missing out every day.)
All right. Let's vote starting from Jae Jung.
- Is it a worry or not? - I don't think...
- it's a worry. - In her point of view?
I think there are many people who love your sister.
She has you as well as her boyfriend.
As long as you know how to love yourself,
it'll be resolved.
- I don't think it's a worry... - Heo Kyung Hwan.
because you have a will to lose weight.
You can lose weight with a systematic exercise.
You can build a beautiful body, so it's not a worry.
I think it's a worry.
It's really great that you're on a diet,
but you must care for those you love and yourself too.
I want you to live happily.
I also think it's a worry.
I want you to change little by little.
I also tell myself that I'm pretty in the mirror.
- That's right. - I try to do that.
Even I think I look ugly sometimes.
- You can't acknowledge your looks. - That's right.
I look ugly no matter how much I look, but I try...
to build a habit of telling myself that I'm pretty.
Press the button if you empathize with the worry.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, - In 5, 4,
- 3, 2, 1. - 3, 2, 1.
- Stop. - Time's up.
Say a few words to your sister.
- Even if it's little by little, - That's right.
- I will... - Change little by little.
practice eating together.
When we're struggling or are under stress,
I'll try to make some time to talk...
and to lean on each other.
Tell her that you love her.
- Tell her that you love her. - I don't want it.
(Smiling)
(I love you.)
Show us how many votes "My Extreme Sister" got.
(The result)
Did it get over 100 votes?
("My Extreme Sister")
It's 73.
You promised us.
This week's winner is...
"Biased Love".
We will give the winner a gift certificate.
Until the day we are all worry-free...
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you! - Thank you!
("A Daily Song" by Hwang Chi Yeul)